A pouch of hope...

Unconditional love

By Marjo van Weenen

m.van.weenen@home.nl

www.marjovanweenen.mysites.nl

I would like to share with you the words: ‘unconditional love’ and ‘expectations’. These days many things cross our path and are given to us from many sources. The Mary-Magdalene energies are talked about a great deal and as many of you know, that is an unconditional energy of love. But what does it mean exactly?

Unconditional in the phrase unconditional love, is just that, a condition. It feels as though love should be there only without conditions. In the old 3D environment that was true, but energetically is LOVE just what it is. It is all, it is the Devine which is within us. The word unconditional is the result of fears from the past, possession, power, expectation, struggle, denial, etc., that we know so well from all relationships that did not work.

Therefore the phrase unconditional is so popular. “I like you but do not allow conditions into our relationship”. In fact this is based on fear, because at the very least or very lowest can be said: “You stipulate conditions, but that is not love.”

The ego knows fear, the heart knows love. It is important to check out where this fear originates from and heal it. We want to sow and harvest love, but all the time there are these obstacles.

By my work, the people surrounding me and moreover my own experiences, I can see that it is not always easy to function properly. We need conditions/appointments to survive, to be able to trust. We expect that when we give love, reasonably speaking love will flow back. What you sow, you will harvest, when you sow love, you’ll harvest love. This is very old wisdom.

But what is LOVE? We feel this has to with doing our chores with all the heart, with very pure intentions. But somewhere we expect to get back that love. That is very humanly, but foremost in our relations this can cause disappointments.

With our minds we know that the other has his own processes, thoughts and feelings, it hurts though and deep in our hearts we expect the other to receive the love that we want to give and that this love will flow back.

Conditions and expectations are often described as low vibrating energies and often it is said that we might cross out these emotions and feelings out of our lives.

I ask myself with all my being if this could be possible in these turbulent times. Accept that you are who you are and don’t snap at yourself if you recognize and experience things you do not like.

Very often is said: let it go. Beautiful words, but how do you do that? We can let go in many ways; healings, rituals, tears and discussions. But is it not ordinary acceptation of what we would like to happen and is not feasible? Has it maybe to do with expectations, conditions, a wish that does not come true, struggle? Yes it is a range of emotions and if we do not watch out, we will be entangled in the web, for sure if we don’t accept some feelings and when we are too busy to pursue perfection and to satisfy the common picture of the ‘conscious human.’

Often we hear the phrase: ‘overflowing backpack’, which is in fact a multitude of unprocessed emotions that we avoid to look at and to heal. We just know what appears on our path comes with the intention to cure but we avoid clearing out our backpack which would make the burden so much easier to carry. Many people suffer from neck-, shoulder-, back- and hip complaints indicating literally succumbing under the burdens. This is often seen as a depression or burnout.

Many people get stuck in this vicious circle. They want to get out, but there is only one thing that can show us the way to healing. REALIZATION of all that is happening within yourself and your surroundings. Look at what you are doing, look at what is happening, recognize it, accept it and make a new choice.

This process is the road to healing, to a new beginning. You may look at your past, you may mourn about that what has been. You also may start anew by being very clear toward yourself, by making choices and utter your hearts wishes.

Dare to choose for a new beginning. You know what has been and does not work. Put out your heart wishes and follow the synchronicities, although sometimes it is not clear what the intention is. Forgive the past and trust and follow your inspiration; doing nothing will bring you nowhere. Just show courage and reward yourself when you have taken a step that was unthinkable before.

This is a step-by-step process. Look at every moment and live through and recognize your feelings. At long last, time will heal all wounds, together with the process of becoming aware.

I look at life as dancing on a cord. Sometimes you fall off and you hurt yourself, but the more you keep on dancing, the more adapt you become in the taking truly part of life and thus creating your own heaven on earth.

Dear reader, it is all written down and discussed so cleverly but it needs time. It is a total reorientation from what you have been and there is no button to turn the wheel around. If you. in TRUTH, can see through and be honest to yourself, then you do not have to punish yourself because you are one of many who is playing around with this. A broken leg needs 8 weeks or more to heal, so give your process of uplifting your awareness the time it needs to integrate in your Being and let go of your old patterns and pains.

Give yourself a present from time to time. Love yourself and know that this love is the best healing. Your surroundings will have to get accustomed to the new person who reacts differently from anything than before. Do not try to explain everything, everyone has his own responsibility about the life he lives. But in the end everybody will accept the changes, without struggle, without condemnation or judgement because what you are....,you will attract.. The ‘law of attraction’.

And when you reach and feel that love for yourself, then you will see your fellow man with other eyes. You feel compassion because you know it is not easy. And then there is LOVE, for yourself because you know the way and for the other because you feel what he feels.

Be thankful…

Be thankful for the dear angels on your path, who protect you and let their love flow by accepting you who you are. They are the mirrors in which to see yourself and who you really are.

Be thankful for the moments of pain, the choices you have to take by choosing love.

Be thankful for the lonely moments, in which you be yourself and may get the message why you are lonely and why you choose loneliness.

Be thankful with all you have right at this moment. Your house, your family, your job, your circle of friends, your partner. Realize how privileged you are.

Be thankful there are people in your life who choose for themselves, thank them for the time you spend together.

Be thankful for being able to close doors and to open others.

Be thankful for your life experience that lets your soul evolve to the point where you are right now.

Be thankful that you can feel and recognize fear and pain. They let you know that you cannot turn back the wheel of the time and that it is now the moment to choose for release and inner peace.

Be thankful for everything in your life, give it love and be satisfied. Give it your attention and it will blossom and be more beautiful than anything you have ever seen. Nourish those things that are dear to you, enjoy them and don’t look forward all the time to something new, because perfection does not exist. It is not what you are.

When you are thankful and content, your heart will open more and more. Then you will see everything through other eyes, more colourful, much more meaningful because you missed the details since it wasn’t what you really wanted to see, you were not satisfied and you didn’t live through your heart but out of fear, disappointment or pain.

Give colour to everything around you, see the beauty of everything around you and most of all the beauty within yourself. That’s what it’s all about.

With a closed heart, full of fear, pain and disappointment, life is grey and drab. You forget to nourish all that is dear and above all obvious to you. In the end they will die because they cannot live without love.

Is that what you want?

Thankfulness is the way to inner peace. Let this love flow freely and when that love flows your heart will be open and there will only be beauty. Fear, dissatisfaction, struggle and war will disappear, and that is what we all really want to experience, heaven on earth.. within ourselves.

2008, a new start. Let us be wholeheartedly thankful. It will improve our lives and additionally life on earth as well.

In thankfulness I wish you all very much love and power.

Marjo

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